Life On Hold

So I got sick, caught COVID for the second (third? I feel like I'm forgetting something) time. It's nowhere near as bad as the 2021 rendition, thankfully. 

But I woke up too late to take my ADHD meds and now it's bedtime and I'm grumbly and trying not to spiral about feeling so isolated. I've mentioned it to a few people, and only one even asked how I'm feeling, which feels very strange and out of the norm. I know it'll feel like nothing emotionally in a few days, but I sure wish little things like this didn't feel so big in the present moment.

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