Of Life and Birthdays PART 3

Birthday dinner was wonderful. 

Everyone showed up, which sounds like a miracle to me at this point. 

Everyone brought gifts, too, which was unexpected, sweet and, in one case, completely unhinged. I should've expected that from my friends, though. 

I kept it small, 9 people, and they sang happy birthday "underwater" style which is funnier than I can describe. 

I've realized recently how uncomfortable it still is for me when people are nice to me. Even someone besides my partner opening a door for me makes me feel put on the spot and shy. Obviously that's something I'll be working on getting used to, but it's a strange problem to have, especially this late in life. 

I had a therapy appointment the same day as my birthday dinner, and I showed her one of the engraved YSL lipsticks I bought myself. She was about as impressed as I am with them. I suspect she's up to something with that information, since she wrote it down and asked what colors I prefer. I adore her, and I don't care if I misread that, really. She's got a good heart, and I know that. 

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