Life and Finances

My partner and I just found out yesterday that it's going to be much easier than we had anticipated to increase my income more than 2x what I'm getting now. 

It might be a wait, but there will be at least 6 months of back pay when it happens. We discussed the numbers and priorities today and I'm just so relieved. 

I would be lying if I said I didn't feel a bit smug about it, given the fact that my partner already doesn't have to work anymore, and I haven't worked in over a decade now, all because of choices I made earlier in life. I keep thinking of people who've damaged the relationship between us and how they'd be benefiting from this if they'd treated me half as well as I treated them. The plus side to this is that I know exactly who really cares for me at this point in my life and I will have the opportunity to take better care of them than I could've before. 

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